115 short lines for the back of the card, 25 short verses and 12 ready-to-send texts, emails and letters, sorted by kind of party: casual, formal, from the parents, hosted by friends, funny, no gifts, ring ceremonies, surprise parties and more. Every short line can go straight onto one of the free invitation designs: pick it here and the maker opens with it on the back.
An engagement party invitation does two jobs. The front says whose engagement it is; the back carries the date, the place, the RSVP and one practical sentence, most often who is hosting. That sentence is where most of the lines below belong: the hosts, the dress code, no gifts, a late parent remembered, or a ring ceremony worded for both families. For timing, guest lists and addressing the envelopes, see the engagement party invitation etiquette guide.
9 lines · 2 verses
Casual & fun wording
Casual engagement party invitation wording for a relaxed get-together: a few friendly lines that say who, what and come hungry, without sounding like a wedding invitation.
The question was asked,the answer was yes,so come raise a glasswith the people who love them best.
It's official
After all the hintsand all the guessing,it's official at last:come share the blessing.
8 lines · 2 verses
Formal & elegant wording
Formal engagement party wording for a dinner, a black tie evening or an engraved-style card, in the traditional "request the pleasure of your company" voice.
Together with their families,[Name] and [Name]request the pleasure of your companyat a celebration of their engagement.
An evening in their honor
Please join usfor an evening of dinner and toastsin honor of the engagement of[Name] and [Name].
8 lines · 3 verses
From the parents wording
Engagement invitation wording from parents: one set of parents, both families together, or parents hosting with the couple. The host line goes first, the couple's names in the middle.
Mr. and Mrs. [Last Name]joyfully invite you to celebratethe engagement of their daughter[Name] to [Name].
From both families
The [Last Name] and [Last Name] familiesinvite you to an eveningcelebrating the engagement of[Name] and [Name].
From the groom's parents
With great happiness,[Parents' Names] invite youto celebrate their son [Name]and his fiancée [Name].
8 lines · 2 verses
Hosted by friends & family wording
Wording for an engagement party hosted by friends, the bridal party, a sibling, or aunts and uncles, with lines that name the hosts without crowding the card.
We've watched this love growfrom first date to forever;now come help us celebratethe two of them, together.
From aunts and uncles
Aunt [Name] and Uncle [Name]would love for you to join themin celebrating the engagementof [Name] and [Name].
10 lines · 3 verses
Funny & punny wording
Funny engagement party invitation wording and cute puns for the back of the card: fishing, nachos, rings, popped questions and finally-official announcements.
We've invited you overfor a reason or two;the best one is newswe can't wait to tell you.
Keep it quiet
Not a peep,not a post,not a word to the couple:we'll surprise them with a toast.
9 lines · 2 verses
Ring ceremony, sagai & sangeet wording
Indian engagement invitation wording in English for a ring ceremony, sagai, roka or sangeet: the formal family voice, with both families named and space for blessings.
We're engaged,and we want to celebrate with you.Please save the date;the invitation will follow.
12 samples
Engagement party invitation texts, emails and letters
For a text or WhatsApp invitation, an email, or a letter from the families: copy one, replace the words in square brackets, and attach the card as a phone-sized PNG.
Email · Warm, casual
Engagement party invitation email
Subject: You're invited: [Couple's Names] engagement party on [Date]
Hi [Name],
[Name] and [Name] are engaged, and we're throwing them a party to celebrate.
Date: [Date]
Time: [Time]
Place: [Place, Address]
There will be food, drinks and plenty of toasts. The invitation is attached; please reply to [Host Name] by [RSVP Date] so we can plan.
Hope to see you there,
[Host Name]
Text message · Short, friendly
Engagement party invitation text message
Hi [Name]! [Couple's Names] are engaged and we're celebrating on [Day, Date] at [Time], [Place]. Invitation attached. Can you make it? Reply by [RSVP Date]!
Text message · Cheerful
WhatsApp or group chat invitation
Big news, everyone: [Name] and [Name] are engaged! We're celebrating on [Date] from [Time] at [Place]. The invitation is attached. Please reply here with a yes or no by [RSVP Date], and let us know if you're bringing a plus-one.
Letter · Formal
Formal engagement invitation letter from the parents
Subject: An invitation from the [Last Name] family
Dear [Name],
It is with great joy that we share the news of the engagement of our daughter, [Name], to [Name], son of [Parents' Names].
We would be honored by your presence at a dinner in their honor on [Date] at [Time], at [Place, Address]. The invitation card is enclosed.
Kindly reply by [RSVP Date] to [Phone or Email].
With warm regards,
[Parents' Names]
Letter · Formal, warm
Ring ceremony invitation message from the families
Subject: Ring ceremony of [Name] and [Name]
Dear [Name],
With the blessings of our elders, the [Last Name] and [Last Name] families are delighted to invite you and your family to the ring ceremony of [Name] and [Name].
Date: [Date]
Time: [Time]
Venue: [Venue, Address]
Lunch will follow the ceremony. Your presence and blessings mean a great deal to us. Kindly let us know by [RSVP Date] whether you will be able to attend.
With love,
[Host Names]
Text message · Festive
Sangeet and engagement WhatsApp message
Namaste! We are delighted to invite you to the sangeet and engagement of [Name] and [Name] on [Date] at [Time], [Venue]. An evening of music, dance and dinner awaits. The invitation card is attached. Please confirm by [RSVP Date]. With love, the [Last Name] and [Last Name] families.
Email · Formal, joyful
Traditional engagement invitation email
Subject: Traditional engagement of [Name] and [Name]
Dear [Name],
The families of [Name] and [Name] joyfully invite you to their traditional engagement ceremony on [Date] at [Time], at [Venue, Address].
A reception with music and dinner will follow. Traditional attire is welcome. The invitation card is attached.
Please reply by [RSVP Date] to [Host Name] at [Phone].
With warm regards,
The [Last Name] and [Last Name] families
Email · Excited, discreet
Surprise engagement party email to guests
Subject: Shhh: a surprise for [Couple's Names] on [Date]
Hi [Name],
We're throwing a surprise engagement party for [Name] and [Name], and we'd love for you to be there. Please keep it a secret: they have no idea.
Please park around the corner and keep it off social media until after the party. Reply only to this email, not to the couple, by [RSVP Date].
Thank you for helping us keep the secret,
[Host Name]
Email · Light, mysterious
Dinner invitation where the couple will share news
Subject: Dinner at our place on [Date]?
Hi [Name],
We're having a few of our favorite people over for dinner on [Date] at [Time], and we have some news we'd love to share in person.
No need to bring anything but yourselves. Let us know by [RSVP Date] if you can make it.
Love,
[Name] and [Name]
Reminder · Friendly
Engagement party reminder
Subject: See you [Day]: [Couple's Names] engagement party
Hi [Name],
A quick reminder that we're celebrating [Name] and [Name] this [Day] at [Time], [Place, Address]. Parking is [Parking Note].
If your plans have changed, just reply and let us know. We can't wait to see you!
[Host Name]
Email · Short, upbeat
Save the date for the engagement party
Subject: Save the date: [Couple's Names] engagement party
Hi [Name],
[Name] and [Name] are engaged, and we're planning a party to celebrate! Please save [Date] in [City]. A formal invitation with all the details will follow.
Talk soon,
[Host Name]
Chat message · Professional, warm
Office message for a coworker's engagement
Exciting news: [Name] got engaged! We're celebrating in the [Room] on [Date] at [Time] with cake and coffee. Everyone is welcome. If you'd like to sign the card, it's at [Desk] until [Day].
Whose engagement it celebrates, who is hosting, the date and time, the place, and how to RSVP and by when. Then one practical line: the dress code, no gifts, or what is being served. Everything else is tone.
How do I word an engagement invitation from the parents?
Name the hosts first: "Mr. and Mrs. Robert Lin request the pleasure of your company at a dinner celebrating the engagement of their daughter Margaret to Edward Shaw." When both families host, list both, or use "Together with their families".
How do I say no gifts on an engagement party invitation?
Keep it short and warm on the back: "No gifts, just your company" or "Your presence is the only gift we need". Most guests don't expect to bring one to an engagement party.
What do I text for an engagement party invitation?
The couple, the date, the time, the place and how to RSVP, with the card attached as a phone-sized PNG. The text and WhatsApp messages below are ready to copy.